Oh Lord! What I learnt from dating a 40

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He never felt jealous, was never possessive, lost his temper or even shared his fears and hopes on life. ALSO READ: It broke my heart to know that my 40 year old man doesn't fancy babies. He was nostalgic about the good things he did in his youth but he can't do them now. All my girlfriends aaawed!

He never felt jealous, was never possessive, lost his temper or even shared his fears and hopes on life. He'd die and you'd spend the rest of your life lonely or looking for someone else if you ever get married.

To think that a 40 year old man dating a 21 year old is off?

When I was 39 years, 3 months, and 16 days, a girl I had known for about 3 years asked me on a date, she was 18 years, 1 month, and 6 days old. I was her first date, first kiss, etc. We were together 5 years, 5 months, and 5 days and had planned to get married. Although, after we broke up, she needed to find a job and rent a place of her own, so she lived with me another 3 months and 10 days before finally moving out. Over the time we were together, very few people raised an eyebrow at our relationship. At first meeting, her sister asked if I was a paedophile, to which I told her no, and that was that. Her family quickly accepted me and everything was normal. Her family knew all along that she would end up with someone much older, at 13 she had crushes on her teachers and coaches, her celebrity crush was Mark Harmon, who is 39 years older than her. Every year we would go spend the holidays with her family, traveling to another state and staying with them about 7 weeks. The only people that seemed bothered by our relationship were a few single women my peers, frustrated that men their age dated younger girls and were not interested in them. I had several friends and coworkers, fathers of teenage daughters, who offered me their unsolicited opinion of my relationship; they would rather for their daughter to date a much older man than her peers. Fearing that irresponsible young boys would likely get their daughters pregnant and offer them no future. While an established man would not, and would be able to take care of her and support a family. One of these men is living his nightmare, his daughter, the same age as my now ex-girlfriend, was impregnated by her peer boyfriend, and now she, her husband, and their 2 children live with my friend, both of them work part time for minimum wage, and have no apparent future. My ex-girlfriend did not have to work, she completed her degree, we traveled the world, and completed a number of her bucket list items. Watching the constant challenges of her friends, cycling through relationships, being single, and serial dating, being used and abused by boys, working and struggling to make rent and pay bills, she concluded that she was not worthy, she she did not deserve to have such a perfect life on the very first try. After a few months struggling on her own, she moved in with her parents, threw away her degree, took up MMA fighting, and joined the Navy. We are still good friends, many of my friends are still friends with her, I am good friends with many of her friends, and we both still have many friends obtained together. We share nearly 100 mutual friends in real life. My parents still like her and her family still likes me. There is no animosity or ostracization. As far as the only wanting one thing, that is a load of crap, we were waiting until marriage, so there, sex is not the only reason an older man would date a young girl. In fact, quite the opposite, rather than going down the immoral rabbit hole, she entered into the faith, and I sponsored her through the process of receiving the Sacraments. Well legally you can…, but should you? A 20 year old just started their life and the 40 year old is probably at the peak of their life. Sooner or later the 40 year old will be retired when he gets older. He'd die and you'd spend the rest of your life lonely or looking for someone else if you ever get married. He would not be able to enjoy life together with you, he'd always know more than you and he'd always be taking care of you in a bad way. The guy might even get tired of you when you're 30 and dump you for a 19 year old. These types that go for much younger people I'm always afraid of, but if you think they're a good person, stay with them. It's all up to you. Very ideally, your partner should reflect where you are at in your life. And a lot of that usually has to do with the kind of age bracket you are in. A married father of two with a nine to five job will probably not find much in common with a college freshman who is living it up. You see where I am going with this. Few people are on their own two feet by age 20 these days, many are still in college or some other form of education and very greatly still rely on their parents to help them find their way in life. There will be huge gaps in life experience, in age related interests, even in the kinds of bands you will like or how you will want to spend your weekend nights. Are you prepared to go clubbing with your 20-year-old girlfriend? And even if so, who is going to look after your house or pay your mortgage during that time? And do they have the medicine for your back pain in Mexico? But there is a whole world of things that you are up against. And chances are, so will your own friends who are your age. What do you do, where do you go to spend time together, what do you talk about every day, when the initial attraction wears off? And people have made bigger obstacles in their relationships work. There are several marriages of those with huge age gaps that have lasted through the test of time. Let us weed out most of the current celebrity ones because certainly it is all about proving something. Rather, look to those who have weathered so much in their lives, look at other cultural marriages and learn what traits they had to keep the relationship growing stronger. In today's times it is not easy for marriages to last because of the false pretenses and so called societal norms in the name of freedom being indoctrinated into us. I turned 40 this year and I am dating a 23 year old who is wise beyond her years! We both bring out the best in each other. I am more of a kid at heart, always playful and she is a bit more reserved. We tend to exude a great balance between us. At times when either of us do get perturbed, we both know to give each other our space or, whoever is calmer at the time will walk together through the issue and resolve it. The other joys of dating her is that I enjoy making her laugh, she gets me. She further supports me in various ventures or ideas I may have and gives me the honest cut and dry truth, no BS and, vice versa. I do value what she has to say, it is not and simply cannot be a one-sided egoistic affair. Besides I can see BS from miles away, with her that's not the case. Further to that we both come from two different religious background and cultures, residing in Europe so yes, lots of odds to work through. At the end of the day it all depends on how a couple flow together. Each individual have their own personality and traits. Yes it is challenging, but, the core of us is that we simply connect and there-in lies the answer.

My parents still like her and her family still likes me. You know boys and Insta. Over the time we were together, very few people raised an eyebrow at our relationship. Her family quickly accepted me and everything was normal. I turned 40 this year and I am dating a 23 year old who is wise beyond her years. A 20 year old just started their life and the 40 year old is probably at the peak of their life. He has betrayed just dating 40 year old he has been betrayed. ALSO READ: Once upon a time, when the relationship God's were smiling at me, I dated a 40 year old man. I'm 28 and all my boyfriends bar one have been in their 40's. We were together 5 years, 5 months, and 5 days and had planned to get married. As far as the only wanting one thing, that is a load of crap, we were waiting until marriage, so there, sex is not the only reason an older man would date a young girl. At 40,he has seen it all.